Welcome to my peace filled space..
My key word for the year 2010 is “embrace”… Being mindful of all of the different ways to *embrace* has allowed me to venture into areas that are at times outside of my comfort zone. I am by nature quite bold and daring..so if something is outside of *my* comfort zone, it is most likely outside of yours as well..
This post is dedicated to each and every person who inspires me…
This post is dedicated to All who open their hearts to new and different..
This post is dedicated to those who return time and again to read my words here and who then use those words to allow for peace, joy, love in places they might not otherwise have been aware..
This post is dedicated to *You*..
I *love* you and that love inspires me to continue to open my heart fully..to try new and different..and to allow my heart to lead me to places beyond where I could imagine..
I am newly enrolled in the Freedom Business Summit. The few hours that I’ve invested into this course have already been life changing. I cannot fathom what direction I will be led..I just know that I “happened” to see this course, I had absolutely *zero funds* to pay for this course and a ton of fear about investing my energy into this course. Doesn’t sound very win-win does it? But, my intuition said give it to the Universe, so I did..And a few hours later, someone generously donated the fee for the course and another someone generously offered to be my support for five weeks.
The moment I opened my heart fully, the impossible became my reality…
One of the first questions I happened upon is along the lines of “What are you freakin’ awesome at?”– incorporate it into your work….Dang it..I’m freakin’ awesome at making love..it’s what I do naturally, it’s what I do best, it brings me great joy on all levels..
*grin* I know it’s not what you expect from me..but please stay with me….
So, here it is dear readers:
How to Make Love with Joy…
Making love is an experience, not a process, not something to “think” about, there isn’t a “right” way..and don’t we often let fear of perhaps doing something the “wrong “way stop us from experiencing something. So, may I ask that you turn your mind off (bye-bye fear..adios!). and allow your senses to lead you as you read (hello, *joy*..right here very ready for you!)…Making love is sensual, a delicious treat for each of your five senses and beyond..
Before we begin, though..I would like to bless this creation. When I create anything, I ask for a blessing. When I open my heart fully, I ask for a blessing. So my blessing for making love is as simple as “Thank you for this experience. I release expectations. I release all to You. I open my heart fully to the moment as it is presented to me. Please allow me to open my heart ever farther to receive all of the joy and abundance you would like to bestow upon me. May my senses experience much delight and may that delight touch my life in exactly the right ways..Thank you for this gift.”
If you’ve experienced me in the “real world” you will know that when you are in the experience of *love* with me..it is so joy filled, so freakin’ awesome..that you forget words..and you cannot access your mind..all you can do is let *love* wash over you, head to toe..and that feeling lingers with you throughout your day…It is my hope that I leave with you that feeling today..
May I suggest perhaps a slightly different concept to you…When making love, you often think another person is needed..sure, love is best when shared..but you can make love a solo adventure by opening your heart to making love to yourself..you can make love with another..you can make love with a group..mmm scandalous..turn your mind off then, and let your senses feel as you continue to read..
*Thank you* for opening your heart to new and different..
For surely if we are to *make love with joy*, our hearts need to be completely open. Our goal is to access full joy, for why would we come so far together to access only partial? To access full joy is as ‘easy’ as to be fully aware of the beauty in our hands. Whether that beauty is my own, yours, of the World..it is my intent to allow my each of my senses to experience it in totality..to delight my taste buds, my auditory and olfactory nerves, every nerve ending on my skin, All in my vision. When I wake in the morning, I bless the day, then I open my heart..and *that* is the beginning of making love with joy..
All that I create in life is from this fountain of joy…so I want this fountain to be overflowing. All that I share in life is from this overflowing abundance..so I want it to be the absolute best it can be. How do I get “that”? In my life, when I compromise, I am rewarded with compromise..so I allow only that which is aligned with my heart into my life. Sometimes this means there is a lot of clean empty space..I choose not to use ‘fillers’ but rather to be patient and allow “best” to be perfectly placed. I am as thankful for the empty space which speaks “promise” to me as I am for the full spaces.
So, with a heart full of gratitude for the fullness of beauty in my hands, my entire Being says *thank you* for this experience! Thank you for all that you are allowing me to touch, taste, see, smell, hear..thank you for All that you are allowing me to be in this moment..Thank *You*..
There are moments so full of joy that when we are in them we may forget praise. I believe in the law of attraction..what I focus on grows..so as I allow my senses to lead..I am focusing on enjoying the moment..which brings more pleasure..and on being thankful for the moment..which brings much to be thankful for.. You see, even as I am in these passion filled moments, I am allowing myself to soar every higher by allowing for supreme love and gratitude. Passion filled moments are each and every one that I allow my heart to lead..so, when I wake and set the intention to open my heart..I am setting the intention to allow magnificent joy and delight into my life..
I choose how much joy and delight is in my life by choosing whether or not to open my heart to the moment. How often do we allow our hearts to be so fully open that we are aware of the delight of experiencing the world through our senses? Of the complete joy of the freedom of sensual pleasure as we make love with the world..
For surely as we are making love, we are One with All, so we are making love with the world.. You have often heard me say here I am having a love affair with the world..a joy filled, sensual treat..one that brings me so much pleasure I allow myself to experience it often throughout the day..turn my mind off and make love with joy…
We are all unique..and I celebrate that fact! So, in making love with joy, there is no “right” method or ‘best’ way..When you allow your senses to lead All methods induce ecstatic pleasure..There are plenty of books, classes, theories so I suggest you throw them away and let your senses lead you..
Do you feel fear at being so completely utterly naked..stripped down for all to see..no barriers, no past wounds, no guard around your now completely open heart..your completely naked body..For when you open your heart fully..you are butt naked..no way around it. This is not the time to think of society’s tendency toward ‘perfection’ for truly what is perfection but standing in Faith…Knowing you are loved exactly as you are..You *are* perfect..be damned that last few 5 pounds, or the misplaced freckle, or the scar from when you were twelve..your heart doesn’t recognize any of that..and your senses bring you beyond it all..
We are making love with joy..and joy loves complete nakedness..revels in it..Allow your senses to celebrate this newfound freedom, to bask in the glorious moment, and allow that glory to wash over you as surely as the warm sunshine washes over you..think of this..On a warm sunny day you throw open the windows, you run outside in anticipation and you allow the sunshine to pour over your face, into your every crevice..you bask in the sun..
So shall you bask in making love with joy..nothing else is in your realm but this feeling of utter bliss..this feeling that takes you beyond Earth and it’s limitations and contraints..takes you to the moon..because You *are* the moon..and in those precious seconds you Know *You* *Are* *The* *Moon* ..as you’ve never known before..
You are utterly naked, you are absolutely free..you are soaring to a place you have never been..You are the moon..
And I for one find great pleasure in dancing in the moonbeams, letting them cascade into my entire being, fill me up until I forget my name, who I am what I am meant to do..for now I am the moon too..We are One..We are the Moon..
This is what happens when you open your heart fully to joy..in the physical world, when I meet you, I want to Know you for all of the above..So I look into your eyes to See you. I shake your hand or give a gentle hug to Touch you. When you talk, I pay attention, I am Listening to you. I hear your heart whispers…I Smell the fragrance of them and send them to the moon, even as you are telling me your story. As they settle back into our realm I Taste the sweetness of them..Pure nectar..You feel Sunshine..For a moment you forgot your name..You have just *made love with joy*…
And you know what..in these last few minutes you have felt perhaps a little fear, perhaps a little discomfort, but you’ve allowed joy to take you past that into bliss..
And you may return to the blissful state any moment that you wish..