Universe, I Am Here
I meet a lot of people who are trying to change their lives, but they just can’t seem to create what they desire. Often, what we think we want is not always what we need, and the gap between reality and what we’re dreaming seems to widen daily. Pretty soon we resign ourselves to being miserable and slide into depression.
One of the most common responses to healing is that this lethargy is lifted and clients manifest their dreams immediately. I’ve had two clients phone me this week, I saw them both a year ago, and they chatted like excited school girls talking about Justin Bieber. It was difficult for both of them to describe exactly what had changed, but they were no longer anxious, they slept peacefully, they were pain free, new opportunities had manifested, well … life was great!
Interestingly, when they first came to see me they couldn’t describe exactly what was wrong. They simply felt miserable. After ninety minutes the change was immediate: they looked ten years younger, their eyes were big and bright, dazed, they floated to their cars, and never looked back.
How do we not know what’s wrong with us, and more surprisingly, how do we not know what’s right? What’s happened to identity, being unique, and connected to self? I think part of the problem is that at the moment I’m connected online, and not to the earth. Digital media is like an artificial consciousness, it’s becoming our compass—human contact this way.
I think social media is a powerful medium to evolve global consciousness: we can communicate and expand awareness in a safe environment, but without action and human interaction consciousness remains a state of being, rather than the expression of being. It’s the difference between telling someone online you love them and holding them in your arms.
Rather than talk about what I did to heal my clients, I’d like to help people heal themselves. Let’s find out who we are and how we can be happy. Some of these steps are confronting and require absolute honesty.
- Accept full responsibility for your current circumstance. There’s no value in believing: I am unhappy because …, I have no money because …, I am separated because …, I am (fill the gap) because … We are responsible, period.
Write a list of all the things you are responsible for, and if you need to, read the list out loud. Action creates change. Taking responsibility is empowering and helps us to regain control of our lives.
- Forgive yourself. This is part of being responsible. I know this is difficult for victims of abuse and violence, but we need to forgive ourselves for holding onto the pain. The vibration of healing/consciousness doesn’t measure an event, there’s no big or small. The vibration of yelling at a child once is the same as if that child was beaten daily. The frequency, I’m afraid, I must have done something to deserve this, is now active in the child’s, who will become an adult, energy field. The physical memory will fade, but the event remains alive in the unconscious mind, and the energy field. Again, a list is a good tool for this exercise: I forgive myself for hating myself, I forgive myself for not trusting myself, I forgive my enemy—this is a tough one. Whether I’m healing the attacker, or the victim, the frequency of the vibration is the same.
- Spring clean. Before we spring clean our minds lets clean our homes. De-clutter, move furniture, the exercise will tell the universe I’m ready. Movement creates a new and exciting vibration. I avoided saying a higher vibration because it implies we must have had a low vibration, and that’s judgement.
- Make a space for you at home. Move business papers, gym equipment, household appliances, and stored goods out of this space. For parents, move your children from this space as well; this is your space. Universe, I am here.
- Be conscious of what you’re thinking, and cease all judgement. We all do it and we need to correct this habit. We’ve all walked past someone and thought they’re too fat, too skinny, too rich, too poor, they’re black, they’re white, and …(fill the gap) Stop. All we’re doing is judging ourselves, and when it’s our turn to stand in front of a mirror: we’re too fat, too poor, too … See the good in people always and you will see what’s good in you.
- Our actions must always honour the truth. I don’t have enough money, but I still buy smokes, alcohol, and I can’t live without pay TV, three cars, and I simply must get my back waxed every fortnight.
- Be aware of what you have. If our focus is on what we don’t have, then we’ll never have enough. I have blue eyes, I have running water, I have that heart shaped dimple on my left butt cheek, I have sunshine, …
I have beautiful people to communicate with, I have intelligent minds to debate ideas with, I have neighbours who are afraid sometimes, just like me, and today, in this moment, I love you. Tomorrow, I will do my best to love you as well, but if I’m afraid, it’s okay, because I have neighbours just like me.
Bless you all. Talk soon, Simon.